I have been reading an article in which a psychology student writes a series of questions to Dr Michael J Hurd who is an "American psychotherapist, broadcast radio show host, author, public speaker, and commentator" according the wikipedia. The title of the article is
'Escapism vs. Refueling: Good? Bad? Or Indifferent?'
The student asks “What do you think of escapist subcultures such as Cosplay and gamers? Is this healthy behavior for people or is it deviant?”. Hurd answers the question and broadens the context of it comparing these activities to even more common methods of escapism such as shopping. he acknowledges that these escapist behaviours could take over someones life and become their primary purpose but no more so than sports or using the internet.
"The dose makes the poison"
Dr Hurd says " don’t find anything inherently irrational or wrong – which I define as against the interests of advancing one’s life – in these activities. The question with fantasy is whether you lose contact with reality in the process of taking part in the fantasy. In other words, not whether you become psychotic or delusional (unlikely), but do you become so involved with the activity that it becomes your primary purpose in life rather than merely a method of refueling.
Refueling refers to something like a hobby. It means an activity you can pick up and put down at will. You might go days or weeks without it, as you become involved with primary relationships or career/school activities in your daily life. But you can pick it up again any time."
This is the first time I have come across the term refuelling in the context of its relationship to escapism. I'm not sure it is a necessary term unless you automatically assign a negative or extreme connotation to escapism. If escapism helps us to understand the world we live in or makes us happy when the world around is bringing us down then how do we tell when we should get back to reality? when does positive become negative?
I think this answer may overlook the possibility of an escapist activity creating a new world for that person that provides all they need in terms of social interactions and career.




